Questioning story: Why do you ask so many questions? - 03/24

I was a curious kid and used to ask many questions. In 2002, during my pre-college time, I was sitting with a group of older friends. Eager to learn about one friend's Engineering journey, I bombarded him with questions: 

• How to study for Engineering?

• How long to study?

• Which books to refer?

• How much marks are required for a good college?

• How are practical exams?

I asked at least 15-20 questions in a matter of 10 minutes. After everyone left, my Mom said, "Why do you ask so many questions? Give others time to respond, and please note how exhausted the respondent seems with your questions!" However, like a typical teenager, I ignored her feedback, thinking that she didn't understand how curious and hungry for knowledge I was. 

Fast forward by 22 years, and I am still that curious. The only change I have made is in the way I get the answers, thanks to a decade of working as a consultant. 

If I could go back in time, I will ask the right question instead of a barrage of questions. 

"I see that your Engineering journey is very motivating for pre-college students like me. Is it possible to walk me through your journey and suggest what should I do get into Engineering?" This single, focused question would have elicited a more engaging and informative response, eliminating the need for further questioning. 

Right questions encourage detailed and informative responses without exhausting the respondent.

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